Daytime approaching

Cold to warm

For guys who want a girlfriend, not a number. Small missions out in the real world take you from eye contact to asking her out.

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The Cold journal: your current level, approaches this week, and a log of every conversation

The fast way

Stop waiting for the apps

Guys who stick with our process report:

10+

first dates per month

3x

more attraction than with their dating app matches

Apps vs in person

Better than the apps

Our process helps guys date women who are much more attractive than the ones they meet on dating apps.

Dating apps

You pick from whoever swiped back.

BETTER

In person

You're in control of who you talk to.

Daily lessons

Learn it in the morning. Use it that afternoon.

A short audio or video lesson every day. Listen on the walk to the café, then go put it into practice.

  • A few minutes a day, audio or video
  • What to say, how to read her, and when to leave
  • Paired with a real-world mission to try the same day
Today · Video
What to say after hello4 min
Holding eye contact without flinchingAudio · 6 min
Tomorrow
Reading whether she's interestedVideo · 5 min
Thu
Why a no doesn't sting for longAudio · 7 min
Fri

In the app

Built for the moment before

Sessions

Set a number of approaches and a time limit. Daylight, sober, phone in your pocket.

Breathing

A guided breath right before the rep, so the nerves don't make the call for you.

Journal & progress

Log every approach and watch the fear drop. See yourself getting braver week by week.

A session: five approaches in one hour
The journal of logged approaches